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Healthy Relationships

 

 

 

In the Spring of 2014, KHPES Middle and High School students were treated to a visit from renowned, Psychotherapist, author and speaker Dr. Jill Murray.   To look at her, you might not think so, but she is one strong wahine who has seen tough times, and knows first hand about abuse.  On her visit to Ka`u she shared information on what healthy relationship should and should not look like.  Many of our students were touched by her presentation, and lots of them had "ah ha" moments. 

 

Dr. Murray has valid and thought provoking information about abusive relationships and has been a guest speaker on many reputable talk shows including the Oprah Show, Anderson Cooper, Dr. Phil and many more.  Please take a look at her insightful website,  watch her videos, check out the books she has written (several copies are in Mrs. Walker's office), and even email her if you need help at  drjill@drjillmurray.com.  She has promised to answer every email she receives.

 

Dr. Jill Murray

Dating Abuse Facts

 

  • Nearly 1.5 million high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year.

  • One in three adolescents in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner, a figure that far exceeds rates of other types of youth violence.

  • One in 10 high school students has been purposefully hit, slapped or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend.

   

Visit loveisrespect.org for more information

 

 

Learn More ....

Are you a good partner?  Is your relationship healthy?  Take a quiz on dating abuse and find out more about yourself!

 

 

How To  Get  Help ...

Abuse is not only getting physically hurt, but also can be the result of psychological abuse.  If you need help, talk with a trusted friend, family member, counselor or call The Domestic Violence Action Center helpline which is available Monday-Friday from 8:30 AM to 4:30 PM (Hawai'i time) at 1-800-690-6200 (toll-free for neighbor islands). This helpline can assist teens, their friends, family members, teachers, or anyone who has a question or needs support. All helpline services are confidential and if you choose, anonymous as well. You may also email teen@stoptheviolence.org If you are experiencing a crisis and feel your safety is at risk, please call 911.

 

Other Resources ...

Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence 

Child & Family Service

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